Women Fear About These Marriage Things

Looking at the number of women who choose to stay un married or who are just happy to be in a relationship but don’t feel the need to get married, people wonder what is happening. It is like debunking the myth that women are always the ones who want to get hitched. It is also a popular belief that women have no fears about getting married and fall headlong into it while men are racked with a lot of fears before taking the plunge. The truth is that both men and women have their own fears about marriage and sometimes it is the same things that scare them.Here are some things that women fear about marriage.

Things that women fear about marriage things are:

1.Fear of boredom: Just like any relationship, marriage is not exciting after some years together unless two people work really hard on it. Ennui sets in after a few years and this fear of boredom drives away many women from the institution of marriage. They seem to know that the heady feeling of love goes away after a few years and sometimes a few months of marriage.

2.Loss of independence: Just like a man thinks that marriage would kill his independence and his way of life, a woman feels the same. When she is well off by herself and has a great career going for herself, she would not want to get into something that would be a threat to the life she is used to.

3.Not enough love: Women also fear about the love draining away after marriage. They start to wonder what will happen when there is no more love left in the marriage. They think about the futility of staying in a marriage without love. Also they do not want to get into all the trouble of a wedding just to realize later that the love was just not enough.

4.Career problems: No matter how hard anyone tries, the career of a married woman always takes a hit. There may be a few exceptions but that needs herculean effort. When a woman has great things going on in her career she would of course think twice about getting married and putting a break on that. The uncertainties over her job after her wedding are a major fear among women today.

5.Self-doubt: Women tend to have a lot of self-doubts when it comes to getting married such as their ability to constantly love, stay in love and the changes in them after kids and much more. Marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities and they fear that they would not be able to take care of all of them.

6.The fear of cheating or being cheated on: The truth is that there are a lot of temptations out there and it is easy to fall into the extramarital affair trap when you have problems in the marriage. This fear of cheating on the husbands and the fear that the husband might have an affair and break their hearts are also fears that keep the
women away from marriage.